Anytime you give someone else something that they want first without an agreement on what it is that you want in return, you are more likely to not get what you want.
That is why men who give women what they think she wants, in general, are not as successful with women as men who do not give women what they want first.
Men who are "selfish" and worry about their own wants and then the woman's; enjoy a great amount of success with women.
On the other hand, men who put a woman's wants before his own tend to not get what they want and feel as if he has been used by the woman.
It is important that men understand there are only two types of women in this world, givers and takers.
When a selfish man meets a woman who is a giver, he takes and takes till either she can't give any more or he can't take any more.
When a selfless man meets a woman who is a giver, he gives and she gives until someone simply feels as if they can't give anymore.
When a selfish man meets a woman who is a taker, unless someone changes into a giver, nothing ever really develops there is nothing to take.
When a selfless man meets a woman who is a taker, he gives and gives until she can't take anymore or he has nothing left to give.
In the end, it isn't that selfish men actually have more success with women.
Selfish men are simply more willing to take what women have to give and at the same time do not allow women to take as much as selfless men do without getting anything in return.
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